MARRIAGE AND FAMILIES IN CRISIS
1. Some people find Lady Gertrude fickle and unable to hold on to her moral convictions when it becomes inconvenient. Do you agree or disagree?
Suggested Response:
One could see it that way, however, Lady Gertrude’s original view (that one who had transgressed in the past could not be forgiven or trusted in the future) was too harsh and she should have abandoned it in any case.
2. At the end of the film Lord Goring warns Lady Gertrude that she is risking the loss of her husband’s affection if she insists that he give up his career in order to keep her love. What did Lord Goring mean by this? What does this scene say to us about the meaning and the limits of love?
Suggested Response:
Love can be lost by unloving and uncompromising behaviour.
3. Before the crisis, the Chilterns appeared to have an excellent marriage. But was it? What was its hidden flaw?
Suggested Response:
There were two. One was Chiltern’s secret and the other was Lady Gertrude’s uncompromising and self-righteous moral attitude.
4. While there are very strong arguments that society and the political establishment should have shunned Chiltern for what he did, the consensus would probably be that Mrs. Chiltern should have stood by her husband. Do you agree or disagree? Why?
Suggested Response:
Families should stand by one another, even if one fails in public life. The standards for families and public office are different and are not softened by the love that family members feel for each other.
5. Should husbands and wives expect and demand perfection from each other? What are the limits of the forgiveness between spouses?
Suggested Response:
Oscar Wilde sums it up neatly in one of his epigrams: “It is when we are wounded by our own hands, or by the hands of others, that love should come to cure us – else what use is love at all? All sins, except a sin against itself, love should forgive.”
6. What is the relationship between love and the flaws of a loved one? Does this depend on the relationship, such as parental (both parent/child and child/parent), spousal, filial?
Suggested Response:
Oscar Wilde sums it up neatly in one of his epigrams: “It is not the perfect, but the imperfect, who have need of love.”
For more questions on this topic see the “Caring” section below.
FRIENDSHIP
7. Lord Goring is a true friend to both the Chilterns. List the ways in which he demonstrated that friendship.
8. If you had a friend who committed a crime, should that affect your friendship? Suggested Response: It would depend upon the crime and the circumstances.
9. Can you be friends with a person who has moral flaws? Suggested Response: It’s possible, but it depends upon the flaws and the situation. One needs to be careful not to be induced to adopt the flaws by peer pressure or because of friendship.
For more questions on this topic see the “Caring” section below.
ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS
10. Describe the course of the romantic relationship between Lord Goring and Chiltern’s sister.
11. Describe the course of the romantic relationship between Lord Goring and Mrs. Cheveley.
12. Compare Lord Goring’s rejection of Mrs. Cheveley and the reasons for that rejection with Mrs. Chiltern’s acceptance of her husband after she knew of his moral lapse in the past. What does this tell us about when moral flaws disqualify someone from a romantic relationship and when they do not?
For more questions on this topic see the “Caring” section below.
JUSTICE
13. An example of how important and complex issues of justice and morality in public life can become is shown in a comparison of two morally flawed recent U.S. Presidents. In the Watergate Scandal, Richard Nixon was forced to resign because he and his assistants had used the power of his high office to illegally gain an advantage against his opponent (George McGovern) in the 1972 election. They then tried to cover up what they had done through additional illegal actions. Nixon was impeached by the House of Representatives and, had he not resigned, he most certainly would have been convicted by the Senate and removed from office. In the 1998 Monica Lewinsky scandal, the House of Representatives impeached President Clinton for having an adulterous sexual affair with a White House intern and then lying about it under oath. While they condemned Clinton’s actions, the public and the U.S. Senate rejected the effort to remove him from office. What were the differences, if any, between these situations? Do you agree or disagree with the way that they turned out? Explain why.
Suggested Response:
What President Nixon and his henchmen did in 1972 affected the outcome of an election. The crime went to the very heart of the democratic process. In the Lewinsky scandal, President Clinton was caught in a private sexual affair. Many people thought that the matter reflected very poorly on him as a person and as a leader, but that it should have been left as a personal matter since it did not directly affect the performance of his duties. They felt that he should not have been asked questions about the incident in a deposition. There were several other factors operating that helped Clinton. At that time, the highest Republican office holder was the Speaker of the House of Representatives. During the scandal two Republicans who held that position were forced from office due in part to apparent sexual misconduct. In addition, the lawsuit in which Clinton had been forced to testify was promoted by Republicans intent on destroying Clinton. Finally, many people believed that the effort to impeach Clinton was simply an effort to destroy a popular Democratic President by a Congress controlled by the other party, not because of the Lewinsky scandal but because they disagreed with his policies. There were concerns that the balance of power between the branches of the federal government would be drastically changed if President Clinton were impeached. There is no one right answer to the second and third parts of this question. [You might also want to add to the mix the question of whether Ronald Reagan should have been impeached due to his actions in the Iran/Contra affair. It appears that Reagan approved sending arms to the Contra guerillas in Nicaragua in violation of a specific law prohibiting that action. His administration hid the expenditure by using money made from secretly selling arms to an enemy of the U.S., Iran. Reagan’s activity violated the law, directly dealt with his duties and President, was surreptitious and in that sense dishonest, and aided an enemy of the U.S. There was no move to impeach him. The question is why? First, he was very popular. Second, Nicaragua and Iran were not central to U.S. interests at the time. Third, while it was clear that people in Reagan’s administration had broken the law, it was not crystal clear that Reagan knew what was going on.]
14. If you didn’t think President Clinton should have been removed from office for his actions in the Lewinsky scandal, how would his actions have affected a decision to vote for him if he could have run for a third term as President?
Suggested Response:
There is no one right answer to this question. Good answers will refer to: (1) the fact that leaders are role models and good leaders behave ethically; (2) Clinton’s transgression was personal and didn’t relate directly to his duties in office.
15. Should Chiltern have been required to make restitution and give up his ill-gotten gains? To whom would he have made restitution? Would it have mattered if there were specific victims that he had taken money from?
Suggested Response:
Clearly, it was not a good result that Chiltern was able to keep his ill-gotten gains. Ethics mean nothing if people are permitted to keep what they steal. However, it is not clear to whom restitution should be made. There were no direct victims that could be easily identified. The answer is the state. Chiltern should have paid the money into the public treasury.
For more questions on this topic see the “Responsibility,” section below.
REDEMPTION
16. See the Quick Discussion Question #1.
17. How would you feel about Chiltern as a public official if he retained his wealth and position but, after the speech in Parliament, or perhaps in the speech, he went public with the entire situation, including his own past, the attempt to blackmail him and his refusal to give a false report to Parliament?
Suggested Response:
There is no one right answer to this question. The competing issues are whether the one act in his youth made him unfit for public office. Our feeling is that generally, he should have been forgiven, had he made restitution of his ill-gotten gains.
18. We are told in this film that the Chiltern character has changed and will not act corruptly in the future. In real life, can we make that assumption about a person whose ambition is so strong that at one time it overwhelmed his moral sense? Or do you agree with Lady Gertrude’s comment early in the film that “a person who has once been guilty of a dishonest and dishonorable action may be guilty of it a second time, and should be shunned”? Lady Gertrude later abandons this position. Which do you agree with? Why?
19. Does Chiltern’s relative youth when he succumbed to temptation make a difference in your answer? If you would forgive him because of his age, at what age would you stop forgiving him?
Suggested Response:
There is no one right answer to this question. A good answer will include some of the following concepts: people are allowed some leeway in their youth; an important issue is whether this is one isolated incident or whether it is part of a pattern; patterns of behavior are harder to change than one isolated incident; another question is whether the person has, since the occasion of his or her lapse, displayed character in other difficult situations; another question is whether a similar situation is likely to occur again; people do change and mature and it is not only young people who can change their actions; there is the question of whether the motivation has changed; and did the person acknowledge their action, make amends or restitution, and attempt to redeem him or herself in some way.
20. Why is it good to resist blackmail?
21. Can people change from being immoral to moral?
For more questions on this topic see the “Responsibility,” and “Caring” sections below.